Chet McDoniel
Being born without arms has yet to bring me down. I choose to be happy.
Here is a video clip from Wednesday, December 17th, 2008, at Richland Hills Church of Christ. This is how I close my presentations, and I hope you enjoy my take on choosing happiness and showing Jesus to the world.
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Last night, I had the pleasure of speaking to the 24/7 High School Youth Group at my home congregation, Richland Hills Church of Christ. Not only was I asked to speak, but I got to have my dad with me for our “All He Needs for Heaven” presentation, and I was given the opportunity to lead worship as well. The evening was a blast, and the students were so encouraging to worship with and to get to talk to. With their hands in the air, they praised at the top of their lungs, and I could tell that their joy was coming from deep within their souls. It was a wonderfully relaxing atmosphere, and the group’s passion for living a God-filled life was evident all around us.
It felt great to “be at home.” Joni, Hannah, and I attend Richland Hills, and speaking there always feels so right since we’re very literally talking to our family. Last night had a first for me, too, as I got to lead instrumental worship. I had a blast, and the band was wonderful to work with. I love that we can celebrate and worship our God in so many different ways, and I look forward to a lifetime of praising God in whatever way I can.
From a young age, we teach children to say “thank you.” In fact, the teaching is so prevalent that often times in public, you hear the phrase commonly spoken from parent to child, “What do you say?” Usually, a meek or quick “thank you” is uttered and the parent is satisfied. The practice is to be lauded as our children need to learn to be thankful. Thankfulness is a very important lesson as gratitude is crucial to a happy life.
So, if gratitude is so important that we spend time teaching it to toddlers, why is it difficult for so many adults to accept a compliment? I’ve heard and seen so many scenarios when something nice is said to someone else, and the receiver of the compliment immediately disclaims the remark. Maybe the compliment receiver utters, “Oh, you don’t really mean that…” or maybe they simply give an eye-roll to make sure that the compliment giver knows that they don’t believe in the compliment.
WHY?
Are we embarrassed when something good is said about us? Are we trying to show humility? Maybe those who disclaim compliments are trying to communicate that they don’t believe the compliment could be true. Is our collective self-esteem so poor that we don’t even like compliments?
I believe that accepting compliments is a crucial step towards believing in yourself. Many times after a speaking engagement, I’ll hear things like, “You changed my life” or “You are amazing, and I loved your talk.” One woman came out of a recent talk that my dad and I gave and said she had acknowledged that she had a bad attitude. She had decided to give her failing marriage another chance because of our presentation. WOW! Am I that good? Is our message that powerful? I can’t answer those questions.
I can say that God uses us to spread the Good News to everyone who will hear, and He gets all the glory. I can’t disclaim a compliment with an eye-roll because I know that if I do, what I am really saying is that I’m not good enough for God to make use of. I can’t and won’t believe that. As one person put it, “God don’t make no junk!”
So, when I am complimented, like the young child, I say “thank you” or if appropriate, “praise God.” I dare you to try it. If you are accustomed to shying away from compliments, try responding “thank you.” Not only will you feel better, the compliment giver will also feel better as he/she will be validated, too.
And, remember, as children, most of us were taught to say “thank you.” If a child can do it, so can you!
While I am currently enjoying a long family vacation, I thought it would only be appropriate to let you know about a brand new article of mine on HitchedMag.com. The article is entitled, “The Holiday Shuffle,” and it explores several ways to survive the holiday season with your happiness still intact. I hope you enjoy “The Holiday Shuffle.” We leave on the Disney Wonder cruise ship, tomorrow, and are really looking forward to a relaxing cruise.
(The picture on the article is of the Sneed family at their yearly family gathering. We love meeting up with them every year.)
This past weekend, my dad and I hit the road on Saturday to travel first to West Monroe, LA. We spoke on Sunday morning to the White’s Ferry Rd Church of Christ. The worship service was amazing. What a joyous people! I could feel the joy from the moment we walked in, throughout the worship service (which I had the privilege to lead), and all the way until we left. I really enjoyed working with their praise team, and we heard from so many afterwards about how much they enjoyed our presentation.
On Sunday evening, we headed to Vicksburg, MS, to speak to the Bypass Church of Christ. This church has a very unique history as it is a merger between a predominantly white Church of Christ and a predominantly black Church of Christ. I truly admire them as they have learned to put diversity aside and worship God side-by-side. They are reaching the lost, and we had a great time presenting our story as they were a very enthusiastic audience.
After two presentations on Sunday, we drove to Jackson, MS, for a Monday morning keynote to kick off the annual Mississippi Head Start Association meeting. We got to present to over 200 difference-makers who work with and inspire children, ages 0-5, every day. They work with children with all different kinds of needs to prepare them for elementary school. I really admire their work, and felt it a privilege to “inspire those who inspire.” Even at 8:30AM, they were a GREAT crowd, and they clapped so loud while I was singing, “Standing Outside the Fire” that I thought the roof was going to lift right off the building.
The weekend was truly inspiring and motivational, but not just for those who heard us…my dad and I came away uplifted, and we have great admiration for all three groups and the work they are doing.
Now…it is time for a vacation. Joni, Hannah and I leave tomorrow for Disney World…a welcomed break!
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