My Name in Lights
This past Thursday, we traveled to Luverne, MN, to speak to the community of Luverne at a fundraiser for the Palace Theatre. Now, I’ve never been this far north…especially in January. I was not ready for the brutal reality of what it means for the temperature to be “below zero.” Wow, if that won’t wake you up, nothing will. The Palace Theatre in Luverne is an historic location, built in 1915. While the building has been renovated, it still has that classic theatre feel, and I loved getting to speak there. I particularly enjoyed seeing my name up on the old-style marquee out front complete with flashing lights. While I had never spoken for a “community event” before, I can tell you that the crowd that gathered last Thursday night was ready to laugh. It was an incredible evening and it was perfect…well, nearly perfect.
I close out most of my presentations with a song, and on Thursday, I had chosen to close with Garth Brooks, “The River.” The song was going well until about halfway through when the track I was singing with completely cut out. For a flash of a second, I was stunned. Thinking very quickly though, I decided that if I were to quit and walk away, I would not be following my own message of being able to accomplish anything no matter the obstacle. So…I grinned…said, “there went my track,” and continued singing the song a cappella. As if on cue, many in the audience began singing with me and providing my rhythm section by clapping along. I finished the song, and thus completed my message that you CAN do anything. Many people in the audience asked if was done on purpose…which means I must have hidden my surprise quite well.
We finished out the trip with a stop at Adrian High School were the 5th-12th graders came in for a short talk and a Q&A session. I love being able to go into schools and encourage, but more importantly, I feel it extremely important to open a line of communication so that students can learn what life is like without arms. So often, they find out that I’m like they are…just without arms. I loved getting the chance to be with them, and was a little nervous when I was asked to stay through lunch…until I found out that pizza had been delivered.
While I was ready to get back to relative warmth of Texas (I’ll never appreciate 32 degrees the same way again since coming from a 30 below zero wind chill!), I’ll never forget the kindness and warmth of the community of Luverne and the energy and spirit of the students in Adrian. Now…if we can just get Texas to warm up outside, we’ll be set!
So I Had to Call the IRS…
A few days ago, I received a letter from the IRS saying that I had not filed a certain form for my travel agency that specializes in Disney Vacations. While they were correct in what they claimed, I had understood from my own research and from consulting with a CPA that I was not required to file that form due to being in a community property state. So, as the letter requested, I picked up the phone, dreading the next several minutes as I figured I would have to be on the defensive because, let’s face it, who WANTS to call the IRS?
Then…it hit me. How many people call the IRS upset or incensed about the fact that they received an accusatory letter like I was about to do? I took a breath, realized that the person who was about to answer my call likely had nothing to do with sending me the nasty letter, and dialed the number.
When the voice answered, I simply explained that I had received this letter, and that I believed it was an error. She (the IRS rep) looked up my case, and guess what? I had received the letter because of an incorrect marking in my profile. She placed me on hold and in less than a minute, she returned to tell me that the error had been corrected and to throw away the letter. I would not be receiving any other inquiries about this. I thanked her, and we wished each other a pleasant evening.
Could that have gone differently? You bet! If I had gone in blazing mad over receiving the letter, I would not only have ruined her day, but I might have even met a negative response when inquiring about fixing the issue. The easy way in which the situation was handled was all in my attitude. Because I chose to treat the situation with a smile, I not only had the problem fixed, but I even got the IRS agent to laugh about how ridiculous computers can be. We both had a pleasant call because of a choice about how to approach the situation.
Make 2010 the year that you commit to a happy life and a positive attitude. Without one, you might wind up having to call the IRS a second time!
Tour de Nebraska – Part Two
After a wonderful weekend in Omaha, we drove over to Kearney, NE, on Monday for our next stop, the University of Nebraska at Kearney. While I did have a few flashbacks to dorm life in the guest dorm room we stayed in, I loved being a few minutes away from all of the events on campus. We ate dinner with the students from Collegians for Integration and Accessibility, and had a wonderful time getting to know them. Several of the girls became Hannah’s (my two year old) best friend while we there. We felt like family even though we’d only been there for a few hours.
On Tuesday, it was time to get to work. I was invited to be on a panel for students with disabilities, even though it has several years since I was a student. I really enjoyed being on the panel and hearing perspectives from other panel members on what life was like living with their particular disability. I was not even aware of some of the disabilities shared on that panel, and found the afternoon very educational for all involved. I especially appreciated the positive attitude found in the entire room. So often, when disabilities are discussed in any setting, it can be a very negative and/or condescending experience. This was not the case at UNK, and I am glad to have been a part of such an educational experience.
Tuesday evening, I got the chance to tell my story and answer some questions from the students. We had a blast together, and I truly hope that my story made a difference and gave the students in attendance some things to think about. For many that were there, I hope that my message of a joy-filled life was either a boost or a reminder to do what they were already doing so well.
I appreciate the acceptance and friendships that were formed in the short time we were on campus, and I hope to be back to speak again and meet a whole new set of students in a few years!
KTBS Shreveport Morning News Appearance
I got an awesome opportunity to be on KTBS (Shreveport, LA) this morning with Rick Rowe, talking about my ministry and thoughts on life. Here are the two clips available from KTBS.
Tour de Nebraska
Two weeks ago, I got the opportunity to speak at the 2009 Akastasia youth rally at the Southwest Church of Christ in Omaha, NE. The theme for the weekend was “Be Contagious.” We focused on basic elements of being contagious with the message of Jesus.
Saturday morning, I talked about “how” to be contagious. So often, we allow our ourselves to put up road blocks and obstacles when we should be celebrating what we have been given. We focus so often on what we don’t have, when God asks for our best with what we have been given.
Saturday night, I gave a reason for us to be contagious. Simply put, God’s unfailing love compells us to live happy, joy-filled lives. That love gives us all the reason we need to be contagious.
Sunday morning, I finished with the “who.” While I believe everyone deserves God’s love and salvation, I am concerned that we not put our own limitations on it by deciding who is worthy of love. So often, people that look like us are easy to accept, but someone who looks different (whether it be race, age, sex, disability, etc) is oftened shunned. Or, worse, the church has flat out rejected them as unworthy. I told the youth and the rest of the church that morning that Jesus shows us time and time again that each and every human being is important to God. We ought to follow his example and leave our prejudices aside when it comes to the Kingdom of God.
The weekend was awesome, and I loved getting to know some of the amazing teens that weekend.
We continued our Nebraska tour by heading to the University of Nebraska at Kearney, which I’ll tell you all about next time. I’ll leave you with a picture from Akastasia 2009.
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